Does this make me a prude?

not at all!! sounds like ur a wise young lady! stick to ur guns! most girls actually regret doin it their first time c/ after they realize its not ever what u imagine it would be. just wait there is no hurry. be proud of urself! ur doin a great job, and have a good head on ur shoulders. ur gonna grow up and be a strong, independant woman. give ur parents a hug and tell them thank you c/ they are obviously doin their job!