What should I do about my friend?

I have a friend who is really nice and funny and were alike in how we love the out doors, reading, we are both against pollution and are gonna do some work at a river near by, and we are both easily distracted which makes us laugh a bit. But at points I get turned off by her because she curses a lot. I mean I've gotten used to it but it bugs me. And also at points she gets destructive if she is bored. I mean my brother had this really expensive turn table and she broke a piece off of it! She didn't even say sorry! And another time I had this nice roll on perfume and she just starts to roll tons and tons of it on without asking, and then once she spilled this little fish tank I have (not with real fish thankfully) and she just laughed. It had been spilled over these forms I kinda wanted (I adopted a sea turtle, I saved one thing though). And today she left a bloody pad on the floor of my room! I have pale yellow carpet and luckily it didn't stain with a red blotch! She just does these things that irritate me so much that at points I want to scream at her. She is also REALLY loud. She has one of those obnoxious screechy laughs and its what 10:00 and my older sister has the SATS tomorrow and she might be keeping her up! I tell her to whisper but she doesn't. Im not sure If I am tired and grumpy but I just get so annoyed by her. I mean, I don't sound like a nice friend I know, we are good friends and its not nice to talk about her like that but if you were me you'd understand! I don't know what to do, should I confront her more aggressively?